Father’s Day has a unique way of tugging at our emotions. For some, it’s a day of celebration and gratitude. For others, like myself, it’s a bittersweet reminder of love that still lives on, even after loss.
Seven years ago, my father transitioned from this life. He was a military man, disciplined, strong, and dependable. But he wasn’t just in his uniform. He was a craftsman at heart, a skilled carpenter and welder who knew how to build and fix almost anything with his hands. He loved watching boxing matches and was captivated by his criminal investigation shows. Those little habits told so much about him, his focus, his curiosity, and his resilience.
But what stands out the most about my dad wasn’t just what he did; it was who he was. He had this natural charm, a sharp wit that could cut through any gloomy day and pull a smile from me, even when I didn’t feel like smiling. Though he wasn’t present in my household every day, our connection ran deep. The conversations we had still echo in my mind. He gave me guidance on school, work, relationships, cars, you name it. He didn’t just parent me; he prepared me for life. And that is a gift I still carry every single day.
To those missing their fathers this Father’s Day: I see you. I feel the ache that comes with the empty chair, the unsent text, the memory that flashes across your mind unexpectedly. But know this, our fathers never truly leave us. They live on in our words, our habits, our values, and the lessons they left behind. Take time today to honor that legacy. Cry if you need to, laugh at a memory, talk to them in your heart. Let your grief and your love exist side by side.
And to those who still have their fathers with them: Cherish this moment. Call him. Visit if you can. Ask him questions. Listen to his stories, yes, even the ones you’ve heard a hundred times. Make time, not excuses. The presence of a father is a treasure that can’t be replaced, and today is a perfect opportunity to show your love and appreciation.
Father’s Day isn’t always easy. But it can be meaningful. Whether you’re grieving, celebrating, or doing a bit of both, may you find peace, strength, and a quiet kind of hope today.
Until the next time,
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